Feb 14 2009
best conversation ever, or why my husband is rad
ben: ya know, i don't think i want to do anything for valentine's day this year.
me: (very big eyes) REEALLY?!?!!
ben: yeah
me: wait, you're not doing that woman thing where you're saying this because you know it'll make me very happy but you're secretly wanting me to plan some big romantical thing are you?
ben: (chuckling) no
me: seriously, because you know you have to just tell me. i don't get that kind of crap.
ben: really, i just don't wanna
me: don't toy with me
ben: i'd rather just chill. for real.
me: i love you so very much
February 14th, 2009 at 4:03 pm
i totally agree with that 4th tag. and speaking of stupid, guess who, despite being "soooo broke" is somehow spending this lovely holiday in virginia right now visiting the "other" girl. and guess how i found out - via facebook status updates! yeah, not by him "responding" to what i said a couple weeks ago like he said he would. nope, haven't heard one thing from him. nice. not selfish, immature, insensitive, or thoughtless at all.
ben, do you have a brother? : )
February 16th, 2009 at 1:07 am
that valuable lesson from elementary school remains true: boys are dumb; throw rocks.
February 16th, 2009 at 2:23 pm
true true. and i'm serious about the brother thing. i mean, i know he doesn't. but he should find one. have his parents adopt him. and then hook me up! : )
February 17th, 2009 at 9:52 am
ah yes, the mid-20s adoption. i'll let the in-laws know.
February 17th, 2009 at 3:29 pm
This Valentine's Day scenario is one I will never experience now that my anniversary will always fall on Valentine's Day.
Not that I'm complaining. Two birds. One stone. Mission accomplished. Woohoo. 
February 17th, 2009 at 3:34 pm
sarah, i do not have a brother, but i do have a sister if you wanna try the other team
February 17th, 2009 at 11:14 pm
um, thanks ben. but my screen door only swings the one way. : )
(how about a cousin, maybe?)
February 17th, 2009 at 11:28 pm
haha. way to multi-task there, donnie. good planning and whatnot.
February 19th, 2009 at 10:07 am
Megan, you have the best quotables ever: "You're not doing that woman thing where you..."
February 23rd, 2009 at 5:37 pm
I'm not sure WHY I thought of you when I saw this, but thought I'd pass it on:
http://www.ohdeedoh.com/ohdeedoh/hot-or-not/hot-or-not-little-joseph-candleholder-by-qubus-076850